Memorial Ideas for Your Pet

Grieving after losing a pet is completely normal and heartbreakingly painful. Whether you’ve got two or four legs, it’s an extension of saying goodbye to someone you care about. An innate part of the mourning process is wanting a pet memorial (something that makes you think of your pet friend).

Just as you would for another family member, a pet memorial can be used to honour the life and bond of your animal. You can still organize your own event at home or somewhere else, like a park that your pet loved, even if you didn’t bury them there.

Here are different types of ways you can memorialize your pet’s life and bond with you:

🐾Find an area that you feel comfortable with where you and your family members can share memories. Perhaps place items such as the cremains / ashes, a candle, the collar, a paw print on paper (often given by the Veterinarian), and a picture of your pet. It may bring some comfort to your heart to just sit and be.

🐾Jewelry with cremains can be worn close to the heart and worn every day. Pendants can be purchased ahead of time and ashes can be put inside by the staff at the crematorium. (If not previously arranged)

🐾Tattoos of your pet —even just the face, paw print or a heart can be healing and permanent reminder of your bond.

🐾Outside is a wonderful place to create a beautiful space to memorialize your pet.
Was there an area in the backyard where they liked to sit and chew toys or your runners ? Maybe create a little garden bed, plant some flowers, and watch them grow over the years.

🐾Plant a tree or bush in memory of your deceased cat or dog, either inside or outside. You’ll think of your pet every time you water it, smell its fragrance, or sit in its shade. Even a kit that grows trees from seeds using your pet’s ashes is available.

🐾Paint rocks, write your pet’s name and words that describe your pet (happy, cheeky, silly, stubborn,etc.), and place them in the flower pot or garden. Hang a wind chime above, and listen to it sing and just be …

🐾Anything that brings a smile to your heart, try it.

Published by Dynamic Journey Doula End of Life Practitioner

Please call!’ These words were received by an email from my mentor, friend and spiritual advisor, a mere 3 weeks before her death. In her final days on earth, Leigh Anne taught me my greatest spiritual lesson that holding space, supporting, and guiding a friend through death, is the ultimate gift we can offer to those we love. It was from witnessing death intimately, and the culmination of my life experiences, that I realized I was on the journey of my life’s work, namely a ‘dynamic journey’. Fulfilling my call to be an End of Life Doula, it would therefore be an honour to walk with you and your loved ones’ through their dynamic death journey. Providing companionship with the intention that no one has to be alone as they transition out of this world, I understand the importance of how it helps to hold space, make friends comfortable and to listen to their last wishes. I offer people facing the end of their lives and/or their loved ones, tools for their tool box that they may need so they can be reassured that they will die with grace, dignity and peace. As a healer I offer emotional support to children with grief loss and mentoring for those who have experienced infant and pregnancy loss. As an educator I help with practical assistance, non-medical support, providing up-to-date information about end of life care services to the dying and their loved ones before, during and after death. Bringing care, compassion, laughter and love to the death process, I believe that death is a sacred, beautiful part of our journey. Allow me the gift of sharing a gentle guiding hand and a loving heart during your dynamic journey. Be Good to You!

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