Sometimes, as a person is nearing the end of their life, something tender and unexpected can happen. It’s often called “the rally.”
A person may seem deeply withdrawn in those final hours or days — quiet, still, no longer responding, and resting in what looks like a peaceful, comfortable space.
And then, without warning, there can be a noticeable shift.
They may open their eyes. They may speak. Sometimes they become so alert and present that it feels as though they’ve returned to us for a little while. They might recognise the people around them, join in conversation, or ask for a sip of water or something to eat.
It’s a phenomenon many families and care professionals have witnessed, and while there are studies and countless personal stories about it, there is still no clear explanation for why it happens.
What we do know is that it can feel incredibly emotional and disorienting when it does.
For some, it brings a sudden rush of hope — a feeling that perhaps their person is getting better, or coming back to them. And while there are rare and beautiful stories where more time is given, most often this surge in energy or awareness is brief.
That’s why it can help to know this is possible.
If your person experiences a rally, try to meet those moments with presence.
🪑Sit with them.
🗣️Speak gently.
👂🏻Listen closely.
🫴🏻Hold their hand.
🤍Say what is in your heart.
Because even if that window is short, the love shared in those moments can stay with you forever. And when we are truly there for them, fully in the moment, those final connections can become a lasting gift.
Published by Dynamic Journey Doula End of Life Practitioner
Please call!’ These words were received by an email from my mentor, friend and spiritual advisor, a mere 3 weeks before her death. In her final days on earth, Leigh Anne taught me my greatest spiritual lesson that holding space, supporting, and guiding a friend through death, is the ultimate gift we can offer to those we love.
It was from witnessing death intimately, and the culmination of my life experiences, that I realized I was on the journey of my life’s work, namely a ‘dynamic journey’. Fulfilling my call to be an End of Life Doula, it would therefore be an honour to walk with you and your loved ones’ through their dynamic death journey.
Providing companionship with the intention that no one has to be alone as they transition out of this world, I understand the importance of how it helps to hold space, make friends comfortable and to listen to their last wishes. I offer people facing the end of their lives and/or their loved ones, tools for their tool box that they may need so they can be reassured that they will die with grace, dignity and peace.
As a healer I offer emotional support to children with grief loss and mentoring for those who have experienced infant and pregnancy loss. As an educator I help with practical assistance, non-medical support, providing up-to-date information about end of life care services to the dying and their loved ones before, during and after death.
Bringing care, compassion, laughter and love to the death process, I believe that death is a sacred, beautiful part of our journey. Allow me the gift of sharing a gentle guiding hand and a loving heart during your dynamic journey.
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Dynamic Journey Doula, End of Life Practitioner 